double standards

when one is reminded by another that one has to be responsible and organized with their things, one may comply with the observation. The hard part is when one knows one could observe back at the person who told them in the first place and see points where that person lacks accepting responsibility for their actions. Say car keys or cell phone as some examples for things to be responsible with. Habits can be formed so losing these items. But I hate when people have a double standard when it comes to this. It is impossible! But dealing with difficult people or situations are one of the purpose of this life that we are given to deal with.
argh.